Friday, 30 September 2011

o girl!you are so stupid!

hi and very good evening to all..I hope all of you are just fine and have taken your dinner already.Mama has just finished attending the seminar and I feel so tired.However,there's an interesting story just wanna share with all of you..

Mama has a friend name Jannah.She's so beautiful and many guys admire her.She is the nicest girl whom I have ever known in my life and I also admire her because she always thinks that she has a responsibility towards her friends.Her love stories are sucks and her relationships with her ex-boyfriends before were very pathetic.I feel sorry for her when I listened to her stories about her relationships before.Her first boyfriend had to leave her because they were going to stay apart and she did not believe in distance relationships.She believed that she might have turned away from him and she might also be afraid it would be the same situation happened to him.Then they chose to be on their on way.

Her second love might be a disaster.And for me he was and yet till is a dangerous person.I named this guy,Naim.Naim fell in love with Jannah when they were attending a seminar at Singapore.There,Naim tried to hook up with Jannah with sweet talk and so on.Finally,Jannah was trapped into Naim's trap.Naim was a big spender and as far as I heard,he is still a big spender.He spends a lot which I cannot name and list down here.Jannah might have a very good financial since she works in a big company with big salary.Naim is useless.He likes to sleep and he can only talk.If speaking could turn a white tablecloth into black tablecloth,Naim would be the best person to fill the position.He borrows Jannah's money and borrows and borrows.Sometimes I do not have any idea where he puts his face until he could borrow money from a girl.People knew that it was very difficult to win Jannah's heart.Naim tried so hard to win her heart and finally he won.The weird thing is,after winning her heart,he started ignoring her.He did not reply her text,didn't reply her call and what he did all day long,nobody knew.

After a few months,they broke up.But yet they still see each other.I really don't understand with my friend,Jannah.She knew what they guy did to her but after being persuaded with the fucking sweet talk came out from the shit's mouth,she accepted him back.Meanwhile all this while when they broke up,Jannah was so happy with another guy whom she met after Naim.Suddenly,the relationship between Jannah with the guy was cracked and she turned to Naim AGAIN!!I felt so frustrated because she chose Naim again after all her friends advised her not to accept him again.Look what he did to her!If you are a girl and you were in her shoes,would you accept him back??He did not give anything to her unless the sweet talk and flowery text.Even he still borrows the money from her.He is totally a debtor!!Never pays back..What are you guys going to do if you were in her shoes?If I were her,I would answer HELL NO!!!!!

Humph..I really do not know what else I should say but some of close friends of Naim told me that Jannah was possessed with a spell which Naim did to her.Only God know the real picture between them.But my advice to Naim if he reads this entry and he thinks that he is Naim,stop using God's words from doing bad things.Fate and destiny should be given to God to be handled.If you can't win the girl's heart,probably there's a meaning behind the story.Probably you are bad for her or she is no good for you.That's all..Bye

Sssshhhhh!!!!!!!!!Mama feels so scared if Mama knows that someone is using spell towards somebody.What happens to me if I was possessed too and who is going to give me a wake up call??...bye

Nak cantik??Janganlah kedekut sangat...

Hai dan salam sejahtera..Adoi..Letih sungguh mama tiap kali turun naik dari apartmen mama di tingkat 5 ni.Apartmen yang serba murah dan mampu milik ni apalah sangat yang diharapkan oleh semua orangkan?bukannya ada lif atau tangga bergerak pun.Tetapi tidak mengapa sebab mama bolehlah juga buat serba sedikit exercise kan?hehehe..Orang dah malas.badan pun makin berisi.Sebab tu naik tingkat 5 pun sudah mengah.hehehe

Okaylah..Mama nak bercakap sedikit berkenaan dengan pencuci muka dan alat2 kosmetik yang mama telah cuba dan sedang mencubanya.Untuk pengetahuan korang semua,mama ni pernah mencuba pelbagai jenis produk kecantikan antaranya ialah Safi Balqis,Pond's,L'oreal,Neutrogena,Olay dan terbaru ialah SK-II dan Nutox.Pelbagai produk telah mama cuba dan semuanya mempunyai kesan yang berbeza pada kulit mama.Tetapi mama ingin sarankan bahawa setakat ini SK-II ialah produk yang paling baik pernah mama cuba.Mesti korang fikir mama terlalu kaya sampaikan mama mencuba produk yang paling mahal tu.Apakan tidaknya,satu set produk SK-II sudah mencecah beribu-ribu ringgit kan?hehehe..

Sebenarnya kalau korang bijak dalam mencari produk kecantikan untuk memperolehi kulit yang cantik dan berseri2,korang semua tidak perlu berbelanja sehingga beribu-ribu ringgit.Mama hanya menggunakan satu jenis sahaja dari banyak2 jenis produk SK-II iaitu SK-II Facial Treatment Essence.(Illustrasi sepertimana di bawah)
Bagusnya tentang produk ini ialah kerana essence yang terdapat di dalam SK-II ini ialah pitera dan ia mampu membaiki kulit-kulit mati korang semua sekiranya kulit muka korang kusam dan mempunyai tompok-tompok hitam bekas jerawat korang yang dahulu.Ini kerana pitera di dalam SK-II ini mampu membawa sel yang baru di dalam kulit korang semua ke permukaan kulit yang paling luar untuk menggantikan kulit dan sel mati di wajah anda.Harga untuk SK-II Facial Treatment Essence ini ialah RM199 untuk isipadu yang berjumlah 75ml.Harganya memang bapak mahal tetapi sangat2 berbaloi kepada korang semua yang ingin membaiki kulit mati korang tu.Mama akui yang isipadu untuk produk ini sangat sedikit.Korang mesti fikir,"Eleh,dalam dua minggu pun aku boleh habiskan untuk produk ni sahaja.Takkan aku nak habiskan duit RM400 semata-mata untuk benda ni saja.Tu pun x masuk lagi dengan duit topup,nak beli alat mekap."

Yesss...Mama tahu korang akan berfikir sedemikian.Tetapi mama nak pesan di sini,pandai2 lah korang menggunakan produk ini kerana mama pun beli SK-II yang volume dia 75ml juga tapi sampai sekarang mama masih menggunakan botol yang sama setelah hampir 4 bulan mama membelinya.Korang kena bijak kalau korang nak membaiki kulit muka korang semua.SK-II Facial Treatment Essence ini sebenarnya boleh digunakan bersama-sama dengan produk kecantikan yang lain.Seperti mama turut menggunakan produk Nutox bersama-sama dengan Sk-II ni.Setelah mama menggunakan pencuci muka Nutox ni,mama akan sapukan muka mama yang manja ni dengan SK-II Facial Treatment Essence.Setelah dibiarkan kering,barulah mama akan meloreskan sedikit Collagen Nutox ni pada wajah mama.Untuk finishing,mama akan sapu sedikit alat mekap pada wajah mama untuk tampak ceria dan bersemangat.

Apa2 persoalan tentang produk kecantikan,korang janganlah malu2 untuk bertanyakan pada mama okay?mama akan cuba menjadi consultant kat korang semua secara percuma sebab KECANTIKAN ANDA KEBANGGAAN MAMA....Sekian..Bye

Shhhhhhhhhh.....Niat di hati dah lama nak jadi consultant kecantikan.Sijil belajar kat Berlin pon ada lagi cuma tergantung macam tu aje..Bilalah agaknya akan dapat buka butik kecantikan sendiri yea?hehehe...Bye

Thursday, 29 September 2011

Anda sibuk?Kerintingkanlah...

Hai dan salam sejahtera semua..Apa khabar anak-anak mama di luar sana yang tidak putus2 membaca blog mama yang tidak seberapa ni jika dibandingkan dengan blog kawan-kawan mama yang lain.Hehehe..Yea lah,info mama hanya berkaitan dengan gaya kehidupan masa kini,seksual dan perkara-perkara yang berkaitan dengn mama sahaja.Apa yang sahaja yang mama tahu,mama akan kongsi dengan korang semua.

okaylah..Hari ni mama nak bercakap mengenai rambut.Bila bercakap tentang rambut,ada yang rambutnya kerinting,ada yang rambutnya lurus.Yang lurus nak buat kerinting pon ada.Yang kerinting macam maggi goreng nak buat rebonding pon ada.Jadi,kenalah ikot gaya masing2 yang sesuai dengan bentuk muka serta gaya korang semua.Tapi pada kali ini,mama nak bercakap tentang gaya rambut kerinting serta tips-tips untuk bagi mereka yang memilih gaya kerinting sebagai pilihan rambut mereka.

Tapi bagi mama,pilihan rambut samada kerinting atau lurus sebenarnya bergantung kepada cara hidup masing2.Bukan sahaja mengikut bentuk muka atau stail tetapi mengikut gaya hidup korang semua.Sekiranya korang semua memang seorang yang sentiasa sibuk serta tiada masa untuk menghias rambut atau korang semua memang malas untuk mengeringkan rambut korang yang panjang tu,jadi nasihat mama pada korang ialah rambut yang kerinting adalah paling sesuai bagi gaya hidup yang sibuk.Ini kerana, rambut kerinting adalah gaya yang paling ringkas di mana korang semua just basuhkan rambut korang dan apabila korang semua nak mengeringkannya,korang just keringkan dengan tuala (towel dry) serta menyapu minyak rambut yang sesuai dengan rambut kerinting.hanya ramaskan rambut korang yang kerinting itu menjadi bulat2 yang kecil.Nah,sekarang rambut korang sudah siap didandan dan korang boleh keluar ke mana2 sahaja dengan cepat tanpa membuang masa dengan membelek rambut korang tu.

Tapi harus diingatkan bahawa rambut kerinting perlu mendapat perhatian yang sangat2 teliti.Pastikan rambut kerinting korang semua sentiasa mendapatkan rawatan rambut sekurang-kurangnya sekali sebulan dengan terapi rambut korang semua.Dapatkan nasihat daripada pakar rambut serta penggunaan syampu yang bagus dan sesuai amatlah perlu dititikberatkan bagi mengelakkan rambut korang menjadi 'berbuah' kerana apabila rambut kerinting korang tu dibasahkan,rambut kerinting amat sukar dikeringkan dan mengambil masa yang amat lama.Sekiranya korang mandi dan membasahkan rambut korang tu,selepas itu korang just tidur,secara automatiknya rambut korang akan menjadi berbuah(rambut itu akan bergentel menjadi ketulan).Oleh itu,mama sarankan kalau kerinting menjadi pilihan korang,elakkan membasahkan rambut korang dan cucilah rambut korang di salon 3 atau 4 kali seminggu.Sekian sahaja entry mama untuk kali ni.Bertemu lagi di entry yang lain dengan tips penjagaan rambut yang lurus pula.Bye...

Ssshhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!Mama pernah je buat rambut mama kerinting tetapi selepas beberapa bulan,rambut mama menjadi rosak sebab mama memang sukar menjaga rambut kerinting yang memerlukan penjagaan rambut yang sangat teliti.Seolah2 menjaga seorang bayi...huhuhu..bye!

Tuesday, 27 September 2011

Bergayanya awak.Tapi kena ke?

hai dan salam sejahtera smua..apa khabar korang pada hari ni?mama sekarang sdg mendengar ceramah tentang komunikasi yang dikendalikan oleh seorang pensyarah yang bergaya.Pensyarah ni merupakan jejaka idaman kawan mama sendri.sebab tu kwn mama yang turut hadir dalam majlis ni duduk belakang sekali sebab malu..hehehe

Okaylah..arini entry mama maybe paling pendek dan x pnjang mcam biasa sbb mama just nk komen pasal seorang ahli yang turut hadir ke majlis ni..adoi..dgr kata ahli ni memakai heels(tumit tinggi) sewaktu hadir ke majlis ceramah ni.high heels dia ni bukannya rendah tapi tinggi.sbb tu dipanggil high heels kan?hehehe..dia nak memakai high heels mmg bgus tp mslahnya,sesuai ke beliau hendak memakai high heels yang tinggi tu bejalan di atas jalan yang belum berturap tar yang penuh dengan batu2 bsar dan berselut memandangkan tanah kat sni tanah yang berselut.hehehe..zaman ujan ni,syang..pkai selipar jepun sudahlah kalau awk tu bjalan kaki.hehehe..okay lah..stakat tu je lah entry mama utk kali ni..sekian..bye

Ssshhhhhh!!!!!mama sendiri kalau boleh nak berkaki ayam je datang ke ceramah ni.lagi selesa..nak bergaya juga tapi keselesaan lebih diutamakan..

Monday, 26 September 2011

Take it or you just leave it

Hai dan salam sejahtera smua..mama sekarang sedang berehat2 di sebuah cafe terkemuka di Kuala Terengganu.Penatnya sangatlah teramat.Letih sangat..

Okaylah..Mama kali ni just nk bgtau kepada smua pmbaca blog mama.Mama tau kadang2 blog mama ni serba sedikit berkaitan dengan cerita kehidupan,gosip,cinta,nafsu amarah dan macam2 lagi.Tetapi mama nak tekankan di sini,mama hanya menulis blog ni kerana mama just nk give out what I am thinking while I see people and what I feel about people.that's all..sometimes people might say that my blog is very extreme about something even for anything.that is what I wanna say about my blog..

By the way,if you feel like my blog is very extreme and you don't agree with me,then that is the point of having the button of the terms and conditions.that's all.take it or you just leave it.Then...

Shhhh!!!I can criticise people and I can accept critics.that is the fair and square life..

Nak cucuk lubang lain,lubang lain dicucuknya

Hai dan salam sejahtera semua..Kali ini mama akan lebih aktif nak2 bila masuk tengahari ni.Mama bukan apa.Mama x mau mengantuk dan mama memang terpaksa mengaktifkan diri ini..

Okaylah..entry mama pada kali ini sangatlah ringkas dan panas..Panas ke??hehehe..panas gak lah dikalangan sahabat handai segosip mama yang lain.Mama rasa korang dengar title blog mama kali ni pon mesti agak berbaur lucah tapi sebenarnya tajuk blog mama pada kali ini memang tiada langsung berkaitan dengan seks mahupun perkara2 yang lucah.Nauzubillah..Mintak simpang dengan mama perkara2 yang lucah dan berunsurkan maksiat ni.Hehehe..Topik ni hanyalah berkaitan dengan seorang kawan mama yang memang mama amat kenali diri beliau.

Biarlah mama kenalkan pada korang semua pada kawan mama ini yang bernama Rahim(Bukan nama sebenar)..Rahim ni sebenarnya seorang jejaka yang memang hensem,tegap orangnya.Muka tak adalah smart sangat tapi manis tu adalah kan?hehehe..Ditakdirkanlah Rahim ni telah jatuh cinta dengan seorang kawan perempuan mama juga yang bernama Jamilah(bukan nama sebenar).Jamilah ni ibaratnya seorang bidadari lah di kalangan kawan-kawan mama sebab Jamilah seorang yang baik malah beliau juga seorang gadis yang cute.Nak dijadikan ceritanya,Jamilah ni ada seorang kawan baik yang bernama Marsya.Nak kata baik sangat pun xde lah juga sebab Jamilah dengan Marsya ni baru beberapa tahun menjadi kawan yang rapat.Jadi,segala aktiviti dan rahsia hati Jamilah memang akan diluahkan pada Marsya.

Rahim yang hendak 'tackle' si Jamilah ni sentiasa meminta tolong si Marsya ni untuk masukkan 'jarum' si Rahim ni pada Jamilah.Dengan harapannya,si Marsya ni akan membantu Rahim dan Jamilah ni untuk bersatu.Tetapi apakan daya,si Marsya ni bukannya hendak sangat menolong 'jarum' si Rahim pada si Jamilah tetapi dia duk sibuk masukkan 'jarum' si Rahim ni kat diri dia sendiri.Sedih!!Memang sedih..Si Rahim yang masih lagi tidak tahu tentang perkara ini masih lagi meminta tolong dengan Marsya dengan harapan Jamilah akan menjadi miliknya sedangkan Marsya ni sibuk melelongkan diri dia pada Rahim..Kesian pada Rahim..

Ini merupakan cerita benar dan mama memang mengetahui tentang perkara ini sebab mama sendiri pernah terbaca pesanan ringkas(SMS) di dalam telefon bimbit si Marsya ni.Bukannya nak menolong sangat si Rahim tu dengan Jamilah tapi sibuk duk keneng2 kan diri dia.Buat Marsya(bukan nama sebenar),janganlah sibuk nak lelongkan diri awak tu.Cukup2 lah..Maybe si Rahim tu x sesuai dengan awak..Kalau awak x dapat bantu Rahim dengan Jamilah,baik awak terus terang saje pada si Rahim yang awak bukan nak bantu sangat si Rahim dengan Jamilah tu tapi awak just nak tolong diri awak juga..Daripada awak duk sakit hati mendengar setiap keluhan Rahim terhadap Jamilah,baik awak terus terang saje.Dengan kuasa Allah Taala,manalah tahu kalau terbuka hati Rahim tu pada diri awak pulak..Sekian..Bye!

SSShhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!Bukan mama nak sangat baca mesej orang lain di dalam telefon bimbit tu tapi tiap kali mama nak tengok gallery di dalam handphone kawan2,mesti kena msuk ibox dulu baru boleh access galley.Maybe configuration dalam handphone kawan-kawan mama tu macam tu kot..Hahahahaha...Bye!!

Sunday, 25 September 2011

Betis pon betis lah..Just untuk nyenyakkan tidur je

Hai dan salam sejahtera semuanya..Mama rasa sudah lama mama tidak update blog mama.Anak-anak mama di luar sana yang juga peminat blog Seluar Dalam Merah ni rindukan mama tak?hehehe..Mama harapkan anak-anak mama di luar sana sentiasa menyokong dan terus membaca blog mama dari semasa ke semasa.

Okaylah..Tanpa membuang masa korang semua dengan membaca karya mama yang merapu ni,kali ini mama nak bawa korang semua berfikir dan berimaginasi dengan lebih mendalam dan lebih khayalan.Hehehe..Kali ini semuanya berkaitan dengan seks.Mama ingin memberi amaran kepada korang semua terutamanya pembaca blog,sekiranya korang masih lagi di bawah umur 18 tahun atau korang tidak dapat membuka minda korang semua  terhadap dunia seks(close minded people towards sex),maka nasihat mama ialah korang tutup sahaja blog mama ni dan korang layan saja blog-blog yang berkaitan dengan dakwah atau blog yang berkaitan dengan keagamaan.Hehehe

Nak jadi ke ceritanya,semalam mama terserempak dengan kawan lama mama.Nama dia Irman (*bukan nama sebenar) di sebuah café terkenal di bandaraya ni.Dia seorang pemain ragbi untuk zaman sekolahnya dulu.Korang bayangkanlah pemain ragbi tu macam mana kan.Mesti badannya tegap dan kulitnya sawo-sawo matang gitu.Sexy lah kan?hehehe..Tapi korang dapat bayangkan atau tidak,betis Irman ni sangat sangat extra besar dan berisi dan memang mama tak dapat bayangkan betapa besarnya betis Irman ni.Sesuailah dengan pemain ragbi kan yang lasak dan ganas di padang lawan.Hahahaha…Bila dia singsingkan seluar kakinya dan menampakkan betisnya yang besar tu(pulling up the pants until he showed the thigh),mama terus ada perasaan yang lain terhadapnya.Selama ni mama hanya berkawan dengan Irman ni tanpa ada apa-apa perasaan tapi kali ini,perasaan mama sangat-sangat berbeza.Mama terus menjadi ghairah apabila melihatkan betis Irman yang besar dan sawo matang tu.Hahahaha..Nak dijadikan cerita,saiz betis pon kadang-kadang mampu menaikkan ghairah mama.Ya Allah,apa nak jadilah dengan nafsu mama ni kan?hehehehe

Setelah bersalaman dan berpisah di situ,mama terus balik ke rumah dan bila sampai waktu malam,ketika mama hendak melelapkan mata,mama terus membayangkan wajah Irman yang agak hensem,badan yang sasa serta betisnya yang besar tu.Korang nak tau apa yang mama bayangkan?Mama membayangkan Irman tu melakukan hubungan intim dengan mama dan menindih dada mama dengan betisnya yang besar tu.Alahai….Bestnya kalau semua itu menjadi kenyataan kan?hahahaha..Itu lah diri mama.Yang pelik2 itu lah mama.Bayangan yang bukan-bukan serta jalinan intim yang “ekstrim” sahaja yang mampu membuatkan mama terus berkhayal dan terus melenakan tidur mama sehingga keesokan harinya.Hahahahaha…

Apa-apa pun,mama sekadar berkongsi dengan korang semua tentang apa yang mama selalu fikirkan dan apa yang boleh mama berimaginasi sehingga mampu membuatkan mama terus lena dibuai mimpi seperti itu.Hahahaha..Apa-apa pun,tidak kira apa pun imaginasi korang semua samada korang berimaginasi untuk mencium kekasih korang atau pape sahaja yang mampu membuatkan korang terus lena dibuai mimpi,korang teruskan sahaja.Bukan berdosa pun kalau sekadar berimaginasi kan?hahahahaha..Sekian sahaja entry mama untuk kali ini…Bye!!

SShhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!Mama kadang-kadang dengan kawan mama sendiri pon pernah mama berimaginasi sambil teringatkan lengan kawan mama yang besar dan sasa tu.Nasib baik dia tu kawan mama dan mujur mama just fikirkan nak berkawan lebih lama dengan dia.Kalau sekadar nak berkawan dengan dia untuk sehari atau dua,dah lama mama “makan” dia tu..hahahahahahaha…BYE!!

Monday, 19 September 2011

50 easy ways to lose weight easily and healthy...

Hi and very good evening to all.I know that it's been a week I dont update my blog.I was so busy and I did not have much time to update this.By the way, I have put on my weight and I feel so stressed with my body especially when I put myself on the scale and the result was very very very extra terrible.I know my grammar is totally wrong but I just want to stress out how I am disappointed with myself about my weight..

Yesterday, my friend and I went to Taman Rekreasi Gong Badak to jog.It was so calm and it was so nice to be there.Everybody competed to each other to be healthy..It was so motivating though.Hehehe...Now I have just googled in the internet and I found very interesting article written in Reader's Digest.Here I put the 50 ways to lose weight..Enjoy  and practice it...:-)

Easy Ways to Lose Weight: 50+ Ideas

You know the drill when it comes to losing weight — take in fewer calories, burn more calories. But you also know that most diets and quick weight-loss plans have about as much substance as a politician’s campaign pledges. You’re better off finding several simple things you can do on a daily basis — along with following the cardinal rules of eating more vegetables and less fat and getting more physical activity. Together, they should send the scale numbers in the right direction: down.

1. Once a week, indulge in a high-calorie-tasting, but low-calorie, treat. This should help keep you from feeling deprived and binging on higher-calorie foods. For instance:
  • Lobster. Just 83 calories in 3 ounces.
  • Shrimp. Just 60 calories in 12 large.
  • Smoked salmon. Just 66 calories in two ounces. Sprinkle with capers for an even more elegant treat.
  • Whipped cream. Just 8 calories in one tablespoon. Drop a dollop over a bowl of fresh fruit for dessert.

2. Treat high-calorie foods as jewels in the crown. Make a spoonful of ice cream the jewel and a bowl of fruit the crown. Cut down on the chips by pairing each bite with lots of chunky, filling fresh salsa, suggests Jeff Novick, director of nutrition at the Pritikin Longevity Center & Spa in Florida. Balance a little cheese with a lot of salad.

3. After breakfast, make water your primary drink. At breakfast, go ahead and drink orange juice. But throughout the rest of the day, focus on water instead of juice or soda. The average American consumes an extra 245 calories a day from soft drinks. That’s nearly 90,000 calories a year — or 25 pounds! And research shows that despite the calories, sugary drinks don’t trigger a sense of fullness the way that food does.

4. Carry a palm-size notebook everywhere you go for one week. Write down every single morsel that enters your lips — even water. Studies have found that people who maintain food diaries wind up eating about 15 percent less food than those who don’t.
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5. Buy a pedometer, clip it to your belt, and aim for an extra 1,000 steps a day. On average, sedentary people take only 2,000 to 3,000 steps a day. Adding 2,000 steps will help you maintain your current weight and stop gaining weight; adding more than that will help you lose weight.

6. Add 10 percent to the amount of daily calories you think you’re eating, then adjust your eating habits accordingly. If you think you’re consuming 1,700 calories a day and don’t understand why you’re not losing weight, add another 170 calories to your guesstimate. Chances are, the new number is more accurate.

7. Eat five or six small meals or snacks a day instead of three large meals. A 1999 South African study found that when men ate parts of their morning meal at intervals over five hours, they consumed almost 30 percent fewer calories at lunch than when they ate a single breakfast. Other studies show that even if you eat the same number of calories distributed this way, your body releases less insulin, which keeps blood sugar steady and helps control hunger.

8. Walk for 45 minutes a day. The reason we’re suggesting 45 minutes instead of the typical 30 is that a Duke University study found that while 30 minutes of daily walking is enough to prevent weight gain in most relatively sedentary people, exercise beyond 30 minutes results in weight and fat loss. Burning an additional 300 calories a day with three miles of brisk walking (45 minutes should do it) could help you lose 30 pounds in a year without even changing how much you’re eating.

9. Find an online weight-loss buddy. A University of Vermont study found that online weight-loss buddies help you keep the weight off. The researchers followed volunteers for 18 months. Those assigned to an Internet-based weight maintenance program sustained their weight loss better than those who met face-to-face in a support group.
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10. Bring the color blue into your life more often. There’s a good reason you won’t see many fast-food restaurants decorated in blue: Believe it or not, the color blue functions as an appetite suppressant. So serve up dinner on blue plates, dress in blue while you eat, and cover your table with a blue tablecloth. Conversely, avoid red, yellow, and orange in your dining areas. Studies find they encourage eating.

11. Clean your closet of the “fat” clothes. Once you’ve reached your target weight, throw out or give away every piece of clothing that doesn’t fit. The idea of having to buy a whole new wardrobe if you gain the weight back will serve as a strong incentive to maintain your new figure.

12. Downsize your dinner plates. Studies find that the less food put in front of you, the less food you’ll eat. Conversely, the more food in front of you, the more you’ll eat — regardless of how hungry you are. So instead of using regular dinner plates that range these days from 10-14 inches (making them look forlornly empty if they’re not heaped with food), serve your main course on salad plates (about 7-9 inches wide). The same goes for liquids. Instead of 16-ounce glasses and oversized coffee mugs, return to the old days of 8-ounce glasses and 6-ounce coffee cups.

13. Serve your dinner restaurant style (food on the plates) rather than family style (food served in bowls and on platters on the table). When your plate is empty, you’re finished; there’s no reaching for seconds.

14. Hang a mirror opposite your seat at the table. One study found that eating in front of mirrors slashed the amount people ate by nearly one-third. Seems having to look yourself in the eye reflects back some of your own inner standards and goals, and reminds you of why you’re trying to lose weight in the first place.
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15. Put out a vegetable platter. A body of research out of Pennsylvania State University finds that eating water-rich foods such as zucchini, tomatoes, and cucumbers during meals reduces your overall calorie consumption. Other water-rich foods include soups and salads. You won’t get the same benefits by just drinking your water, though. Because the body processes hunger and thirst through different mechanisms, it simply doesn’t register a sense of fullness with water (or soda, tea, coffee, or juice).

16. Use vegetables to bulk up meals. You can eat twice as much pasta salad loaded with veggies like broccoli, carrots, and tomatoes for the same calories as a pasta salad sporting just mayonnaise. Same goes for stir-fries. And add vegetables to make a fluffier, more satisfying omelet without having to up the number of eggs.

17. Eat one less cookie a day. Or consume one less can of regular soda, or one less glass of orange juice, or three fewer bites of a fast-food hamburger. Doing any of these saves you about 100 calories a day, according to weight-loss researcher James O. Hill, Ph.D., of the University of Colorado. And that alone is enough to prevent you from gaining the 1.8 to 2 pounds most people pack on each year.

18. Avoid white foods. There is some scientific legitimacy to today’s lower-carb diets: Large amounts of simple carbohydrates from white flour and added sugar can wreak havoc on your blood sugar and lead to weight gain. But you shouldn’t toss out the baby with the bathwater. While avoiding sugar, white rice, and white flour, you should eat plenty of whole grain breads and brown rice. One Harvard study of 74,000 women found that those who ate more than two daily servings of whole grains were 49 percent less likely to be overweight than those who ate the white stuff.
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19. Switch to ordinary coffee. Fancy coffee drinks from trendy coffee joints often pack several hundred calories, thanks to whole milk, whipped cream, sugar, and sugary syrups. A cup of regular coffee with skim milk has just a small fraction of those calories. And when brewed with good beans, it tastes just as great.

20. Use nonfat powdered milk in coffee. You get the nutritional benefits of skim milk, which is high in calcium and low in calories. And, because the water has been removed, powdered milk doesn’t dilute the coffee the way skim milk does.

21. Eat cereal for breakfast five days a week. Studies find that people who eat cereal for breakfast every day are significantly less likely to be obese and have diabetes than those who don’t. They also consume more fiber and calcium — and less fat — than those who eat other breakfast foods. Of course, that doesn’t mean reaching for the Cap’n Crunch. Instead, pour out a high-fiber, low-sugar cereal like Total or Grape Nuts.

22. Pare your portions. Whether you eat at home or in a restaurant, immediately remove one-third of the food on your plate. Arguably the worst food trend of the past few decades has been the explosion in portion sizes on America’s dinner plates (and breakfast and lunch plates). We eat far, far more today than our bodies need. Studies find that if you serve people more food, they’ll eat more food, regardless of their hunger level. The converse is also true: Serve
yourself less and you’ll eat less.
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23. Eat 90 percent of your meals at home. You’re more likely to eat more — and eat more high-fat, high-calorie foods — when you eat out than when you eat at home. Restaurants today serve such large portions that many have switched to larger plates and tables to accommodate them!

24. Avoid any prepared food that lists sugar, fructose, or corn syrup among the first four ingredients on the label. You should be able to find a lower-sugar version of the same type of food. If you can’t, grab a piece of fruit instead! Look for sugar-free varieties of foods such as ketchup, mayonnaise, and salad dressing.

25. Eat slowly and calmly. Put your fork or spoon down between every bite. Sip water frequently. Intersperse your eating with stories for your dining partner of the amusing things that happened during your day. Your brain lags your stomach by about 20 minutes when it comes to satiety (fullness) signals. If you eat slowly enough, your brain will catch up to tell you that you are no longer in need of food.

26. Eat only when you hear your stomach growling. It’s stunning how often we eat out of boredom, nervousness, habit, or frustration — so often, in fact, that many of us have actually forgotten what physical hunger feels like. Next time, wait until your stomach is growling before you reach for food. If you’re hankering for a specific food, it’s probably a craving, not hunger. If you’d eat anything you could get your hands on, chances are you’re truly hungry.

27. Find ways other than eating to express love, tame stress, and relieve boredom. For instance, you might make your family a photo album of special events instead of a rich dessert, sign up for a stress-management course at the local hospital or take up an active hobby, like bowling.

28. State the positive. You’ve heard of a self-fulfilling prophecy? Well, if you keep focusing on things you can’t do, like resisting junk food or getting out the door for a daily walk, chances are you won’t do them. Instead (whether you believe it or not) repeat positive thoughts to yourself. “I can lose weight.” “I will get out for my walk today.” “I know I can resist the pastry cart after dinner.” Repeat these phrases like a mantra all day long. Before too long, they will become their own self-fulfilling prophecy.

29. Discover your dietary point of preference. If you work hard to control your weight, you may get pleasure from your appearance, but you may also feel sorry for yourself each time you forgo a favorite food. There is a balance to be struck between the immediate gratification of indulgent foods and the long-term pleasure of maintaining a desirable weight and good health. When you have that balance worked out, you have identified your own personal dietary pleasure “point of preference.” This is where you want to stay.
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30. Use flavorings such as hot sauce, salsa, and Cajun seasonings instead of relying on butter and creamy or sugary sauces. Besides providing lots of flavor with no fat and few calories, many of these seasonings — the spicy ones — turn up your digestive fires, causing your body to temporarily burn more calories.

31. Eat fruit instead of drinking fruit juice. For the calories in one kid-size box of apple juice, you can enjoy an apple, orange, and a slice of watermelon. These whole foods will keep you satisfied much longer than that box of apple juice, so you’ll eat less overall.

32. Spend 10 minutes a day walking up and down stairs. The Centers for Disease Control says that’s all it takes to help you shed as much as 10 pounds a year (assuming you don’t start eating more).

33. Eat equal portions of vegetables and grains at dinner. A cup of cooked rice or pasta has about 200 calories, whereas a cup of cooked veggies doles out a mere 50 calories, on average, says Joan Salge Blake, R.D., clinical assistant professor of nutrition at Boston University’s Sargent College. To avoid a grain calorie overload, eat a 1:1 ratio of grains to veggies. The high-fiber veggies will help satisfy your hunger before you overeat the grains.

34. Get up and walk around the office or your home for five minutes at least every two hours. Stuck at a desk all day? A brisk five-minute walk every two hours will parlay into an extra 20-minute walk by the end of the day. And getting a break will make you less likely to reach for snacks out of antsiness.

35. Wash something thoroughly once a week — a floor, a couple of windows, the shower stall, bathroom tile, or your car. A 150-pound person who dons rubber gloves and exerts some elbow grease will burn about four calories for every minute spent cleaning, says Blake. Scrub for 30 minutes and you could work off approximately 120 calories, the same number in a half-cup of vanilla frozen yogurt. And your surroundings will sparkle!

36. Make one social outing this week an active one. Pass on the movie tickets and screen the views of a local park instead. Not only will you sit less, but you’ll be saving calories because you won’t chow down on that bucket of popcorn. Other active date ideas: Plan a tennis match, sign up for a guided nature or city walk (check your local newspaper), go cycling on a bike path, or join a volleyball league or bowling team.
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37. Order the smallest portion of everything. If you’re ordering a sub, get the 6-inch sandwich. Buy a small popcorn, a small salad, a small hamburger. Studies find we tend to eat what’s in front of us, even though we’d feel just as full on less.

38. Switch from regular milk to 2%. If you already drink 2%, go down another notch to 1% or skim milk. Each step downward cuts the calories by about 20 percent. Once you train your taste buds to enjoy skim milk, you’ll have cut the calories in the whole milk by about half and trimmed the fat by more than 95 percent.

39. Take a walk before dinner. You’ll do more than burn calories — you’ll cut your appetite. In a study of 10 obese women conducted at the University of Glasgow in Scotland, 20 minutes of walking reduced appetite and increased sensations of fullness as effectively as a light meal.

40. Substitute a handful of almonds in place of a sugary snack. A study from the City of Hope National Medical Center found that overweight people who ate a moderate-fat diet containing almonds lost more weight than a control group that didn’t eat nuts. Really, any nut will do.

41. Eat a frozen dinner. Not just any frozen dinner, but one designed for weight loss. Most of us tend to eat an average of 150 percent more calories in the evening than in the morning. An easy way to keep dinner calories under control is to buy a pre-portioned meal. Just make sure that it contains only one serving. If it contains two, make sure you share.

42. Don’t eat with a large group. A study published in the Journal of Physiological Behavior found that we tend to eat more when we eat with other people, most likely because we spend more time at the table. But eating with your significant other or your family, and using table time for talking in between chewing, can help cut down on calories — and help with bonding in the bargain.

43. Watch one less hour of TV. A study of 76 undergraduate students found the more they watched television, the more often they ate and the more they ate overall. Sacrifice one program (there’s probably one you don’t really want to watch anyway) and go for a walk instead. You’ll have time left over to finish a chore or gaze at the stars.

44. Get most of your calories before noon. Studies find that the more you eat in the morning, the less you’ll eat in the evening. And you have more opportunities to burn off those early-day calories than you do to burn off dinner calories.

45. Close out the kitchen after dinner. Wash all the dishes, wipe down the counters, turn out the light, and, if necessary, tape closed the cabinets and refrigerator. Late-evening eating significantly increases the overall number of calories you eat, a University of Texas study found. Stopping late-night snacking can save 300 or more calories a day, or 31 pounds a year.

46. Sniff a banana, an apple, or a peppermint when you feel hungry. You might feel silly, but it works. When Alan R. Hirsch, M.D., neurological director of the Smell & Taste Treatment and Research Foundation in Chicago, tried this with 3,000 volunteers, he found that the more frequently people sniffed, the less hungry they were and the more weight they lost — an average of 30 pounds each. One theory is that sniffing the food tricks the brain into thinking you’re actually eating it.
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47. Order wine by the glass, not the bottle. That way you’ll be more aware of how much alcohol you’re downing. Moderate drinking can be good for your health, but alcohol is high in calories. And because drinking turns off our inhibitions, it can drown our best intentions to keep portions in check.

48. Watch every morsel you put in your mouth on weekends. A University of North Carolina study found people tend to consume an extra 115 calories per weekend day, primarily from alcohol and fat.

49. Stock your refrigerator with low-fat yogurt. A University of Tennessee study found that people who cut 500 calories a day and ate yogurt three times a day for 12 weeks lost more weight and body fat than a group that only cut the calories. The researchers concluded that the calcium in low-fat dairy foods triggers a hormonal response that inhibits the body’s production of fat cells and boosts the breakdown of fat.

50. Order your dressing on the side and then stick a fork in it — not your salad. The small amount of dressing that clings to the tines of the fork are plenty for the forkful of salad you then pick up.

51. Brush your teeth after every meal, especially after dinner. That clean, minty freshness will serve as a cue to your body and brain that mealtime is over.

52. Serve individual courses rather than piling everything on one plate. Make the first two courses soup or vegetables (such as a green salad). By the time you get to the more calorie-dense foods, like meat and dessert, you’ll be eating less or may already be full (leftovers are a good thing).
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53. Passionately kiss your partner 10 times a day. According to the 1991 Kinsey Institute New Report on Sex, a passionate kiss burns 6.4 calories per minute. Ten minutes a day of kissing equates to about 23,000 calories — or eight pounds — a year!

54. Add hot peppers to your pasta sauce. Capsaicin, the ingredient in hot peppers that makes them hot, also helps reduce your appetite.

55. Pack nutritious snacks. Snacking once or twice a day helps stave off hunger and keeps your metabolism stoked, but healthy snacks can be pretty darn hard to come by when you’re on the go. Pack up baby carrots or your own trail mix made with nuts, raisins, seeds, and dried fruit.

56. When you shop, choose nutritious foods based on these four simple rules:
1. Avoid partially hydrogenated.
2. Avoid high fructose corn syrup.
3. Choose a short ingredient list over long; there will be fewer flavor enhancers and empty calories.
4. Look for more than two grams of fiber per 100 calories in all grain products (cereal, bread, crackers, and chips)

57. Weed out calories you’ve been overlooking: spreads, dressings, sauces, condiments, drinks, and snacks. These calories count, whether or not you’ve been counting them, and could make the difference between weight gain and loss.

58. When you’re eating out with friends or family, dress up in your most flattering outfit. You’ll get loads of compliments, says Susie Galvez, author of Weight Loss Wisdom, which will be a great reminder to watch what you eat.

Shhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!Mama hopes that my friend will not kill herself again after reading this..There is always a solution for a problem...(She tried to commit suicide herself because she put on her weight)...

Wednesday, 7 September 2011

Bila perempuan ada rupa...

Hai dan salam sejahtera semuanya.Apa khabar korang semua selepas seminggu beraya?Mama rasakan baru sahaja seminggu dalam bulan Syawal ni,tetapi bahang Aidilfitri sudah pun terasa dinginnya.Seolah-olah beraya hanya pada hari raya pertama dan kedua sahaja yang bermakna.Maybe sebab Aidilfitri kali ini mama lebih banyak mengadakan program bersama dengan family dan jarang meluangkan masa Aidilfitri bersmaa dengan kawan2,maka agak suramlah raya kali ni.Tetapi,hari raya kali ini mama tetap menyambutnya dengan meriah dan penuh bermakna.

Okaylah..Sebenarnya topik mama pada hari ini sangatlah ringkas tetapi bermakna terutamanya pada kaum wanita.Mama sebenarnya baru sahaja keluar lepak2 dan borak2 dengan kawan mama di sebuah cafe terkenal di Kuala Terengganu.Tiba-tiba kawan mama ni mengeluarkan topik berkaitan dengan sahabat mama.Biarlah mama kenalkan sahabat mama tu dengan nama Ani.*Bukan nama sebenar.Sebenarnya Ani ni seorag gadis yang kecil molek dan agak cantiklah.Dengan kulitnya yang gebu dan muka yang manis,sesiapa sahaja boleh tertarik dengan Ani ni.Dengan sikap peramahnya dan sikap mesra serta senyum yang x lekang di mulut,boleh dikatakan Ani mempunyai tarikan yang tersendiri yang mampu mebuatkan seorang jejaka jatuh hati padanya dengan pandang pertama.Begitulah kisah peribadi Ani.

Ani ni seorang kawan dan anak yang baik sebab mama sendiri pon baik dengan family Ani ni.Yang menjadi masalah pada Ani ni,Ani mempunyai ramai peminat lelaki.Boleh kata,hampir separuh kenalan Ani ni sentiasa mengambil peluang untuk mencuri hati Ani.Jenis Ani,dia seorang yang suka melayan semua mesej2 kawan2 lelakinya.Sampaikan ada yang sudah perasan yang Ani sudah menerima cintanya.Itu lah Ani.Suka melayan "text" kawan2 lalu menimbulkan salah faham di kalangan peminat2 Ani.Apa yang mama tak suka dengan perangai Ani ni ialah Ani suka sangat melayan mesej2 kawan lelakinya.Sampaikan handphone Ani ni tak pernah lekang di tangan Ani.Sampaikan di dalam kelas pon Ani masih lagi bermain mesej.Apa yang mama tidak berkenan dengan sifat Ani ialah dia melayan kawan2 lelakinya sehinggakan mereka boleh terslah faham dan seterusnya melukakan hati mereka.

Apa yang mama nk sampaikan di sini,sifat ramah Ani memanglah boleh ditiru dan boleh diaplikasikan oleh semua orang tetapi sehingga menyebabkan salah faham di antra mereka menyebabkan tak sedap mata memandng.Seolah2 Ani ni seorang playgirl,bersifat yang suka mempermainkan lelaki.Memang tak salah untuk Ani berkawan dengan semua lelaki.Memang agak bagus sebab Ani boleh memilih mana-mana lelaki yang dia kenali untuk dijadikan teman hidup Ani nanti.Tapi janganlah sampai menyebabkan orang salah faham seterusnya melukakan hati mereka.Pesanan mama pada perempuan di luar sna,maruah perempuan ni sebenarnya sangatlah tinggi dan mulia.Padanlah dengan Nabi berkata,wanita ni hiasan dunia sebab wanita ni cantik,bermaruah tinggi dan sukar dicapai oleh mana2 orang kecuali orang2 yang berhak.Kalau boleh,janganlah melayan semua lelaki.Sekiranya Ani ada minat pada lelaki itu,luahkan hati pada lelaki tersebut sekiranya lelaki itu sudah banyak kali beri hint pada Ani..Sekian...Bye

SsShhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!Kawan perempuan mama pernah menjadi mangsa fitnah oleh lelaki yang pernah ditolaknya sehingga sampai sekarang kawan mama tu merana...Renung2 kanlah,,,,Bye